All people talk about is sex as if its soo fantastic and great. But when I lost my virginity it was nothing speacial. What's the big deal? Does sex really change things? Do some people really feel a connection or is all the romantic, lovey dovey stuff made up or exaggerated?|||You've never has sex. That's o.k.|||I know what you mean, after the first time I had sex I wondered why I'd wanted to do it in the first place, but if you haven't had sex since your first time you should not let that discourage you to keep doing it ( mind you, protected, and and all other precautions) Because it's not gonna be that great the first time, guys don't have hymens. I would say after you get the hang of it and figure out what pleases you is when you'll start to really enjoy it.
For the lovey dovey stuff, it's not really needed. Unless we're talking about casual sex, it varies from one relationship to another. Remember this; sex is an extension of a relationship. So if you're a cutesy, powderpuff couple, that's what the sex will be like. If you're a tough and rough couple, that's what the sex may be like, If you're a low maintenance couple, same thing. Although remember, like all people, it's not all set in stone, you can have couples that are al sweet and flowery but like to be super dirty behind closed doors and vice versa.
For your question on connections, it's not all romance, it's not easy to find someone you're emotionally compatible with, but people you get chemistry with are easier to find for the most part. So there may be times when you are attracted to someone but not interested in dating, or date and have not-so-great sex with.
And once again, don't worry, once you have sex more often you will learn what you enjoy, masturbating can help with it too.|||No shes not obviously a virgin. I felt the same lack of awesomeness when I first had sex. The difference is having sex with someone that you like alot. Love perhaps. Someone that you feel comfortable with and know likes you back. Once you get that initial awesomeness of sex, you can go and have random sex and that will be good for you too haha.
Depends on you also. I mean, if you don't think sex is a big deal then its not going to be. If you allow yourself to love it then you will also.|||Sex is very overrated. Some of us actually have more fun than sex. I've done many things that were more fun and pleasurable than sex. Although physically, sex is the maximum pleasure. But yes, if you have an emotional/romantic connection the sex is better. Especially if it's with an extremely hot person and they feel the same towards you. I've had sex many times and it's nothing special. I really only did it for them, not so much for me. But to make it better, you gotta know how to have great sex. The key of course is a 2-parter. 1) Communication, 2) Openness to try new things for your partner. Msot of the time, you just need to tease them, get teased, and build it up yourself to a great orgasm.
But in general? It's only as amazing as you want it to be :p So if you only have sex once every 10 years dont let people make fun of you get you down, ignore them, they chose to pretend sex is something special, while you see it for what it is. A physical, sometimes emotional, release.|||the problem is you just 'lost it', you 'just had sex' it was no big deal, but if you ever sex with someone you really love, some your really intimate with, someone who you know inside out and someone who knows what pleases you, sex will be an experience you'd never though you'd have; if you have the right partner they'll take you to depths you've never been before; but until that time its just sex. I'm guessing your quite young and when your young no one has the best sex. People just want to lose their virginity, get laid, have sex, satisfy themselves, a lot of teenage boys are selfish and are having sex for them and not for you both. You'll experience real love one day and understand|||You don't have a high sex drive, that's it.
The big deal is that it's one of the most natural, interactive things and feels wonderful. Sex can change thing by deepening your relationship with someone. Once you've seen them naked, things are just different (for better or worse). People do feel a connection, I know I do. When me and my guy have intimate sex (not quickies), it just feels amazing mentally and physically. He'll hold my hand, kiss my neck, and just hold my body like it's his most prized possession (sounds corny, I know). Makes me feel closer to him.|||There is a huge difference between "having sex" and "making love". I suspect you are rather inexperienced, so trust me, it does get better. Much better. The act of making love is a very special sharing of two people who love each other, who try to give as much pleasure to their partner as possible. The act of just having sex, is akin to 2 wild animals rutting in the woods. This, too, can be quite pleasurable, so try not to judge it so harshly until you've got more experience.|||It depends with the person. Sex when I lost my virginity wasn't all that great and it was pretty short and bland, but now i love it, just because there's a level of openness and excitement and adventure and understanding which goes on.|||Sex is not that important, It is the affair or the Love of both intellectual. Yes, Sex is needed in order to survive or to reproduce another human being. But emotion is also a big factor of having a Sex.|||hey...cool down its not hat way as u r taking it...dn think sex just as a lost of virginity...or else...sex is meeting of 2 souls at 1 place....its fact...and its not that imp then life as love ...SO IN LOVE U CAN HAVE SEX BUT IN SEX U MAY NOT HAVE LOVE|||you have a child...you know the answer.
special*|||You're obviously a virgin.|||overrated|||sex is like an oxygen, u miss it only when u dont have it
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