Tuesday, September 27, 2011

How do I initiate sex instead of asking my husband for it?

I am a very quiet shy person in general, especially when it comes to sex. I don't like to initiate things a lot, but when I do, I generally ask my husband for sex. My husband and I have talked about it and he wants me to be more aggressive and initiate sex instead of asking.





How do I do that? How do I initiate sex instead of asking my husband for it? Any advice? Thanks.|||Be playful. Think outside the bedroom. Next time you take a shower, wear just the towel around the house for a while. See how long it takes before he pulls it off. My wife wears just a Tshirt that comes to mid butt. (drives me crazy) cook breakfast in just panties on a day that he goes to work (or golfing, fishing, etc). He will think about that all day. On a day when he is home, do the same, then sit on his lap and feed him his breakfast. Snuggle up on the couch when he is watching TV, then start unbuttoning something on you or on him. Have a naked video night where you both sit naked on the couch, popcorn and drinks, and watch something you like (doesn't have to be porn). Have naked breakfast on Saturday mornings. Don't forget car sex. Scout out a place when you are alone, then one night when you are driving home, say, "Turn here." and guide him to the spot.. Pull out some battery powered candles for the dashboard. We had a book called "101 sexual positions" and a jar with pieces of paper numbered 1 to 101. We would pick a number and try that position.|||just wear see through bra and undie. make sure your boobs are popping out of your bra. serve him food and make sure you just expose it. then sit on his lap and start undressing.slowly undress him. i'm sure he'l be horny by then.get close to his private part and rub your pussy on his thing. trust me

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|||he'l **** you like ever before. tell him to rub your labia and lick your ****. ride his dick and you both'l *** like crazy then.

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|||ya not to forget suck on his dick.play with his balls as well. **** him nicely.have a lovely ****

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|||Let's face it: The main reason women don't initiate sex is because they don't have to. They know that you'll let them know when you want it, at which point they can decide whether or not they want to comply. After all, if you're always the one asking for it, why would she even bother?





What to do: This is going to require some self-control on your part, but if you can pull it off, it's well worth it. If you usually have sex a couple of times a week, chances are that she expects that amount of intercourse. So, for a period of one week, tease her subtly by giving her long, passionate kisses, sensual massages or caressing her softly while you're watching a movie, and when you feel that she's getting turned on, slowly pull away and continue whatever you were doing in a non-sexual manner. A week of this will drive her up the wall, and she will be all over you by Saturday night.|||I am shy also, but le tme tell you- you have nothing to be shy about when it comes to giving your husband some. They won't laugh or tease or do anything to make you feel embarrassed if they think they are going to get some. It is every guys dream to have their woman get into bed and initaite it. You can be as subtle as starting with a massge or just plain jumping on him, doesn't matter, no matter what it will drive him wild. Have fun :)|||When he gets home from work say nothing but do kiss him hello. Lead him sit on the couch and then perform oral sex on him. Do this until he orgasms. Then stand up and leave. Okay...maybe a small sly smile afterwords but that is all.





Aggressiveness is not always about words. Sometimes it is about attitude.|||You ask your husband how he wants it.


Be creative, wear a mask n black lingerie, be someone else or simply tell him you need sex.


If he wants drama, start removing his clothes n say you been waiting your whole life for his love.|||buy a pole for the living room...it worked for me :) I recommend the "x-pole"...|||start out with a back rub.......


a massage with a little play is all you need.....|||if he want's you to be aggressive about it just reach down and grab it.


or strip naked, actions do speak louder then words. maybe strip him down too!|||If you unzip his zipper and put it in your mouth, I guarantee you'll straighten that boy out.|||dress sexy and jump in top of him, he will get the point.

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