Sunday, September 18, 2011

Sex.???????????????????????

Ok so heres the deal...Im 18 years old and have been with my boyfriend for awhile..We are engaged to be married..Awhile back I had sex and I felt guilty and promsed God I would never have sex again and if I did he could take my life; ( Now Im wanting to have sex and now im scared to: ( Im on birth control pills and do use condoms so no pregnancy..but im still scared bc i promised: ( any suggestions?|||Omg, who is someone to judge you to be engaged at 18 look around you, people are having babys at 13!


Anyway darl, let your partner know how you feel. If you want to wait until marriage and made a promise, just do oral sex! Love making is love making, but you can experiment and be pleasured without going the whole way!...


Just let your partner feel your concerns!|||You know thats just stupid right?


I agree that having sex with someone and leaving them is wrong, but promising your own demise to a being that can't kill you anyways?


no offence but i'm a wiccan. Gods don't just kill people.


If you want my advice, if to you it is wrong, don't do it.end of story.

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|||idont thnk god would punish you for doin somethn so natural,,just be sure to ask for forgiveness and go the best route when doin it...you should be good.! :)

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|||i say **** his brans out

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|||If you defy a physical law, such as the law of gravity, you suffer the consequences. The same is true if you defy a moral law, such as the one that states: “Abstain from fornication.”* (1 Thessalonians 4:3) What are the consequences of disobeying that command? The Bible says: “He that practices fornication is sinning against his own body.” (1 Corinthians 6:18)





Your body is far too valuable to give away. Show that you have the strength of character to obey God’s command to abstain from fornication. Then, if you do marry one day, you can have sex. And you’ll be able to enjoy it fully, without the worries, regrets, and insecurities that are so often the aftermath of premarital sex.—Proverbs 7:22, 23; 1 Corinthians 7:3.|||You're eighteen years old and you're engaged to be married? What has the world come to?





Anyways, you'll be fine. Just because you made a "promise" to God, doesn't mean you'll be spited if you break it. God is love, and he will forgive you if you're really worried about that. Plus, sex is not "wrong". Killing people is. So, don't kill anyone, and you'll be fine.





If you think you're ready for sex (again), and you're emotionally and physically prepared, go right ahead. Just use protection. :)|||ok im a christian and i beleieve if you promise God somthing you should stick to it.........


i think should should stand your gard and do what you promised, that was a big promise you made, so just think about it..... and if your engaged you should just wait till your married, im sure it wont be long till you marry...|||god made eve for adam didnt he? i'm pretty sure that he will not take your life. he understands. people do bad things all the time and he doesnt kill them. and sex is not bad. our bodies are made for that type of thing. like thats why he made girls and guys. if he didnt want people to do it then why did he make it so we can? i promise you. you will be fine and you will probably still go to heaven. hope i helped.|||You will be ok. just relax and enjoy yourself.


You had sex once and it probably felt good.


that is why you are waiting to have sex again.


The body is meant to enjoy sex.


It is good that you use protection until your ready to have children.


Good Luck.


Have fun.|||If you are scared and are doubting it then you are not ready.|||The only thing you could now is get married, then have sex. Or just dont have sex :)))))|||Dolphins are the only other creatures other than Humans that have sex for pleasure....but they don't have birth control.


So be grateful you have access to that! God won't hate, he only loves. He's not going to punish you fro something that feels good and as long as you can say you're emotionally and physically ready to have sex again then do it - no point in fighting natural urges! :) you're 18 and adult enough to make decisions like that for yourself. i personally don't believe in God, but hey! each to their own. Just do what feels right. you're not engaging in anything illegal so stay safe and do it.|||God will forgive you if you have sex with your husband. As a mater of fact you will be rewarded for sex with your husband|||Well since God is a fairy tail creature I think you're good on the whole killing you thing


But you still shouldn't have sex, sometimes people just shouldn't procreate|||Elope then have sex tonight. God blesses sex in marriage.|||may the lord smite you down! get over yourself!

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