What should i do to eliminate the fear of sex?

I meet my girlfriend every 2 months. I and my girlfriend had sex and after then she went mad about it. She was pretty excited about our next encounter but when we met and had sex again she claimed extreme pain. Now she is scared like hell of sex. What can I do to make her get rid of this fear?|||Are you sure it was the same hole ?|||It looks like she is getting banged hard , man, cool the mojo my friend , just playing,





It because your having sex very two months, having sex every tow months is going to hurt, because she hasn't done it for almost 62 days, its like having sex for the first time, the pain is usual, just be romantic and stuff, and make the sex more kiss based, cuddling than penetration just cut it down a little, this will make you be passionate and make her less fearful of pain,you can do more penetration when she and you see each mother more than the 2 months you see her now.|||Well if this was her first time this is perfectly normal. You just have to be very understanding specially if you really like this girl. Try to make sex gentle for her and just take it slow. She will eventually come around, if not try other things for a while that might not necessarily involve intercourse if that's the problem. |||First of all she may need to go to the doctor. Second if there is nothing wrong talk to her and explain to her that you wanna try and be extremely extremely gentle. GIRLS DO NOT LIKE PAIN DOWN THERE THAT IS A VERY DELICATE AREA.|||so everytime you meet you ****?


that sounds like a bad relationship to me. why do you only see her every 2 months? thats like 6 days in a year. sounds really bad.


maybe it was a different girl hahaa


|||Maybe you're rushing into things and you're not spending time on foreplay.|||take it slow...


and show her that shes got nothing to be scared about


or just talk to her about it....|||open communication is a wonderful thing. talk to her about her fear and insure her that you will be gentile. good luck


|||well you could be 2 big 4 her|||tell her that you would never do anything to hurt her and to try one more time?|||are you sure it is the same girl?