Sex....................?

My boyfriend wants to have sex with me, and i want to, but... i'm kinda scared, does it hurt? is it awkward? is it fun? tell me your first time sex stories.|||Honestly, 1,000,000,000 teen virgins will ask this question..a day. And about 1 will get the answer they want. So just go for it, or wait. No one's going to be able to give you an answer that's going to help you understand how sex feels, every body is different. Try it for yourself.|||Well my first time definately hurt. Everyone I know has told me that their first time hurt too. Depending on who it is with, in this case your boyfriend, if your really close to him and you know you really want him to be your first, it may not be too awkward. At first it may be because it is your first time and it's something you aren't used to. But once it gets started, (not trying to scare you but....) you're gonna be so focused on trying to relax so the pain isn't as bad as it could be if you were to strain your muscle. I didn't have fun until like the third or fourth time but if you want to have sex then you kind of have to just get the first time over with.





It took me and my bf two tries to actually have a first time....I wanted to stop because it hurt so bad but he told me to take a deep breath and just let him ease it in because if I didn't, then we would never get anywhere. So I took a deep breath and let him go at his pace. It hurt so bad. I didn't cry but I did do a bit of screaming. I have to say though, I'm glad I took the pain because the second time was a little better and the third time was alot better than that. It gets much better as you go. More fun too once you start feeling comfortable enough to try different positions.|||It is a bit painful the first time for a woman...the pain varies with a variety of factors (the woman, her body, physical condition, etc.). But I've found (through experience and the stories of other women) that the biggest factor of all is your mental state, which leads me to the first point I'm going to make: if you aren't mentally ready, then you aren't ready period.





Your first time needs to be with someone that you care about deeply and who cares about you deeply. You should feel a burning desire to move forward intimately with that person yourself...you'll know because you'll be a bit scared (since it's something new), but you'll want to go forward anyway because of your feelings for the person. If you do this, you'll be with someone who'll be gentle, loving, and understanding...and that'll override most, if not all, of the discomfort you'll feel. As experience will eventually teach you, sex is close to 90% mental.





Another thing you'll learn is that like any other activity, sex is something you'll get better at with practice/experience. Don't be surprised if your first time isn't all you thought it would be. But as you spend time learning about your body - and if you're with that special someone who is willing to learn about it with you so that it's pleasurable for both of you - then yes, absolutely, sex is beyond fun. There are awkward moments even among people who are experienced with sex...but being with that special someone is the key; you can both laugh about it and still enjoy each other.





Hope this helps...and good luck!|||im a virgin, but my cousin told me all about her first time :)


now it depends... do you use tampons? if so... that widens your "Hole" a little bit more which makes it less painful during sex. Now... she said it hurt a bit in the beginning.. but then the pain started going away and it started to feel very good. and for her it wasnt awkward.. she told me just to stay calm. dont be too nervous. so yeah, hurts a lil bit in the beginning and starts feeling good. she said the pain in the beginning feels somewhat like a stinging sensation, or just imagine, a big hotdog being inserted into a tiny donut hole. the stretching will be uncomfortable... remember ... only for a LITTLE BIT!


good luck and have fun


and USE PROTECTION :D|||first time is always scary! Your just so nervous, i suggest you move slow and yes sometimes it does hurt woman the first time it depends on the female.








Well we ended up bonking knees, i hit him in the face with my elbow, it just happens, just make sure that your 100% comfotable with your boyfriend and there shouldnt be a problem, its akward the first few times, but youll get over it!





Oh and use a condom, and if your young think about it most woman regret there first!!|||If you don't feel ready for full on sex yet, you should try other things first. Oral sex can help you ease into things.





The level of discomfort during the first time having sex varies from person to person. If you've been using a tampon or your bf has been sliding his fingers inside than your vaginal walls would have widened and the discomfort will be less. When you have sex, use lots of lube, relax, and do things slowly. It will be fun and enjoyable.|||Just make sure that your boyfriend is caring and knows something about sex, then both of you should talk about it before doing it, or just skip if you are young ( you sure sound like being under 14 or more ), or just make sure that you guys have a long foreplay and that you get wet. Then it shouldn't hurt much. Although, first time always hurts a little.|||First time was terrible but it has to happen sometime. Its hurts the girl alot and can be terrible if you guys havnt fooled around before. After the first time it just gets better. The first time I had sex I was creeped out after because there was blood on my **** and it hurt her alot. About a week later we tried and it was awesome.|||yaa i think its one type of enjoyment and fun also. you never regret about that. if ur boyfriend want to sex with u and even u want also than thats great moment. u should go for that and even it can make u refreshment also. my name is jigar. and i am experienced person on that even i did so many times in my life. i am bachelor.|||if you are scared, tell him about it, talk to him about sex, i know it sounds like it would be awkward to talk to him about it, but trust me, it makes it so much easier, i talked to mine about sex because we both want it... and it does hurt the first few times, but it isn't awkward, and yes it is fun. :)|||Abstinence is the right way to go. It's not about whether it's fun or whether you want to. It's about whether God is going to send you to hell or not. If you give in to him, he's just going to play around with you and toss you like a used up rag doll. If you want him to stay with you, it's best to tease and not let him have it.|||Well it really depends but it normally hurts like a ***** and the first time with most anyone is super awkward. If your scared then maybe its not the right time?


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http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AscA0XJDQPISCqL.Jgy70FEazKIX;_ylv=3?qid=20090806223357AALaTfK|||Mine i was totally drunk and really dont remember. (but ive done it since)


Yes it hurts but not to an unberable extent.


Personally i dont find it THAT fun. If you have been with the guy for awhile it wont be awkward. ;) have fun!|||Im a guy, she seemed alright and she bled a little after, but it was awesome for me. She told me to masturbate before (Even though i dont masturbate) cuz it helps calm nervousness or something, but i couldnt figure out how....|||my first time hurt.. and it did for a while.. but now its good! ..... but i regret having sex at the age i did, so PLEASE if you are young, think about it, and maybe wait because you may regret it.. Sorry, but thats how i feel. Goodluck|||don't be scared, if you ready it will be fun, and should not hurt, just take easy you know? tranquillo! jaja relax and have fun but most of all, WEAR PROTECTION! good luck!|||Ive heard it hurts just about every girl the first time then you get use to it. It might be akward the first time, just be a boss and act like you know what your doing.|||I hear it hurts the first time and it'll most likely be awkward the first time. But also it'll be fun. Just make sure your 100% safe! :) Good luck|||ok i don't know how helpful this will be because i've never had sex, but i've heard that it hurts the first time because you're breaking your hymen. there will be blood. not a lot, but some.|||Don't do it. The guy will respect you if you don't. If he isn't willing to marry you then forget it.|||It's pretty awkward. And Clumsy. Expect weird sounds.|||if yr scared then yr not ready.


and yes, it hurts the first time.


very bad.


very.|||ever been stabbed by a 6 inch steak knife? in the thight kinda like that but not really|||First couple of times grace GOOD LUCK HUN enjoy.