SEX......................!!!!?

Guys and ladies question for you....... So me and this guy have the best sex I have ever had in my life, except I can never oragsm, and it makes him upset becuase he really wants me to. Sometimes we go for like two hours and I still cant go, but I am having fun and it feels good, whats my deal? Any advice? Guys does it upset you when a girl doesnt go? Girls how do you get off during sex? We have tried everything we can think of. I can barely get off when I masterbate now too.|||Its a fact that the biggest sexual organ in the body is....the brain.





Typically when there is a problem with achieving orgasm, it usually can be attributed to the mind. I'm assuming that you and your partner understand the basics for good sex; foreplay, lubrication, clitoral stimulation, etc. So maybe you need to work on your state of mind more....





It can be several things, from extended foreplay, to relaxation, to experimenting with fantasies. Any number of things can be what is causing this block. Start with foreplay. Many couples, especially younger ones, don't truly understand the significance of foreplay. When you're young and have raging hormones, you are "ready" quickly. However, when applied correctly, foreplay can elevate the sexual experience to the next level. Spending one of those two hows on build up will definitely lead to more powerful orgasms. Whether its through stroking, oral sex or other forms of foreplay.





Another thing you might try is sharing your fantasies. What is it that turns you on? What do you think about when you're alone and stroking yourself? Share with your partner what turns you on. Remember, you can be anyone you want to be in the bedroom. And for that matter, so can your partner. Whether its role playing, bondage, spanking or any number of things, talk with your partner and experiment.





Finally, you may want to revisit technique. Does your partner understand your body? Does he know what turns you on? Where to touch, lick, carress to make you feel the best? Have you tried other positions that lead to more clitoral stimulation? Girl on top is one of the best as it allows the woman to control the movement, speed and depth of the penetration. It also allows for her to rub her pubic bone against the man with the speed and pressure that feels best for her.





One more thing, have you tried using sex toys? There are some amazing vibrators out there that can have almost any woman screaming in no time.





Good luck








k|||Maybe you need to relax. Sometimes girls get self conscious about their bodies and can't enjoy sex to the point of climax. I like it much better when the girl has an orgasm, it's like i've earned my orgasm.





Please don't take this the wrong way but I worry that now it's become all about your orgasm and whether or not you're going to have it, and neither one of you can focus on just enjoying the sex. Then it just stops being fun. Then this makes you more anxious which makes you less likely to get off, then you get caught in this cyclical thing.|||Hmm... that's weird. 2 hours you say!!! WOW!! I can't imagine how HE lasts that long.!! Well.... I have never had the problem with any girl about not orgasming... maybe you should try going w/o sex for a while... then come back and see if the time made a differnece??


And I wouldn't go so far as upset me if a girl couldn't get off... but it is fustrating when you really want them to and you have to wait so..... |||Yes it makes us feel like we aren't doing something correctly.Do you get off when he performs oral on you? I have had women that couldn't get off but they were taking meds that stopped them from having an orgasm.I couldn't stay in a relationship with a woman I couldn't make have an orgasm.Sorry but he will probably move on soon.Good luck|||I'm going to have to agree with Ben up there. I'd be disappointed and kind of self conscience from then on.





You should probably take a break for a little while. No masturbating and no sex. Then the next time you do make sure not to skimp on the foreplay. Make sure your in the right mood. If hat doesn't do it then I have no idea.|||maybe you should try a bit more foreplay before you do it, that will help you along. Try a few different positions, see which ones you like best, just keep trying, i'm sure it will happen eventually, if it's really getting to you then go see a doctor and see what they say :) xx|||most girls cant orgasm just from intercourse. Most women have clitoral orgams. Ask him to use his fingers on your clit as he penetrates you.. or you could use your own fingers which will be a turn on to him.. hope this helps|||It's the easiest thing for a woman to fake it. All it is really is muscle tension. Men can never tell anyway. Can't you fake it just for his sake? C'mon now...|||its all in the mind. a guy can get off to just about anything strokin his shlong. a chicks orgasm consist of like 80 percent mind. or maybe uu guys havent hit the spot yet.. or if ur old. ur lebito could be ****** up.. good luck|||Your body just isn't ready yet. A lot of women can't orgasm from intercourse. |||If I was in that situation, I'd also be sad. Makes me feel like I can't do it right since you cannot orgasm.|||Uhhh..


Knock off the crazy times for a while.


lol thats how.


you sex pot.|||Relax and you will get it.|||stick your finger in you|||idk but i woul want them to, that way they can enjoy it to