What should I know about having sex with my girlfriend?

Me and my girlfriend are planning on having sex. I'm going to use a condom, but i've heard stories about condoms not being used properly. What does this mean? Also, is it okay that i bought the condom from a gas station bathroom? This is both me and my girlfriend's first time having sex. I don't want to mess anything up. Any tips?|||You and your girlfriend need to go condom shopping together to buy some decent condoms. If you are not comfortable doing that then you certainly are not ready for sex.





Also, you really should encourage her to go get check out by her gynecologist and get on the pill. The more protection the better because the first time is much less stressful if you don't have to worry about becoming pregnant.





ALWAYS be in tune to how she feels. Make sure you ask her if she is okay with it more than once during the process because the first time is generally much more important for a girl than it is for a guy.|||Ok a condom is a good start. The things with them not working/being used properly is with guys not having the right size and also with them putting it on. The gas stations condoms don't trust them go to your local health dept and you get a free brown bag of condoms they work and you can trust them. Also they come with a instruction guide on how to properly put it on. Havind sex for the first time is something everyone goes through, that's when you know if you like it or not. I wish the two of you luck and when the time comes make sure your ready and im not just talking about the rubber I mean emotionally too.|||ahhh sounds like you got the basic. you can do it with that, but trust me, there are way better. Trojan, best brand. by far. Go get it. Lol


also. don't go to planned parenthood to get condoms, same deal. Basic.





If you don't want to mess up, take everything slow. Be very commutative, for it may hurt her. and the more fast you do everything, the more it's going to hurt. Trust me on that. Along with going slow, going gentle too. You have much more time to "experiment" and what not. Just do the basic for now, slow and gentle, missionary. It won't be the BEST you have ever had, but it will be your first. And who ever said the first time was the best? not really anyone, unless you consider the emotional part of, losing my virginity.. that is kinda a big thing lol.|||No, a gas station condom is not ok. Go buy some real ones at a real store and go from there. You can learn a lot from each other if you both talk and both listen. As for using it properly, pulling it off, turning it inside out, and going again is not proper use. As long as it's on and stays on (without breaking) you should be ok.|||Go to a drug store and buy a condom pack of three.





Cos you never know.





Follow all the instructions in the package and off you go.


Also make sure that you know your girlfriend's sexual history.|||Wow...first time having sex? Just use a condom that suits you. Remember, don't buy the cheap ones...its easily burst.


Be gentle with ur gerlfrens or she will hate it if you do the wrong things.


Good luck for you....LOL|||you need to do herrree good! try the 96. 4 a for shure orgasum do it...its the besssttt!|||Like oll' NIKE gear slogan went: JUST DO IT. Aww disregard that! Of course mind those guy's advice and buy some decent condoms (like Trojan or Durex - protip: try "Her sensation"). Make sure you check their expiration date and stuff like that. It may sound dumb, but try one or two on, if you never did that before. There are instructions in the package, you know.


Ehm... if you're both ok with the idea of having sex, try finding a warm, cosy, quiet place. Oh, INTIMACY! Being caught in the act by your/her folks will make it quite an unforgetable night... the wrong way. Take your time, and try make her feel good. Don't have huge expectations. Sex is quite like wine; it gets better with time, if you have the right person beside you.


Third thing: does she know it's your first time too? I mean, we guys are rather cocky and ommit to tell that. It's true that she might feel more comfortable if you pretend you have some experience (you know, being a virgin and having sex with a virgin girl it's a bit like the joke with the patient that tells the surgeon "Oh doc, i'm afraid, it's my first time", and he replies "Oh, i feel for you. it's my first time too"), but, on the other hand, if she knows you're a virgin and she's ok with that, good for you both.


Fourth thing (hope i don't bore you with that), take things easy. You may be very nervous and don't even get a propper erection due to that. Trust me, it HAPPENS:) Yeah, i forgot to mention that (but you might know). Never put a condom on a flacid penis. It's only for the flag high in the wind :) Should your penis get softer, proceed like in the case of Windows crashes: ABORT, then RETRY and if things get ****** up, FAIL! If she cares about you that much, there will be a next try. But nevermind that, i think and hope it's gonna be ok. And generally, it's OK.


Last but not least, be gentle with her. Since she's a virgin, she may feel some pain (from none to severe :) and experience bleeding. So don't machinegun-**** her like a crazy rabbit or so. It may take a few encounters for a hymen to totally break, so understant her if she tells stop. But after that, let the good times roll. I said be gentle because it's really hard to get in if she's tense. Her muscles may form (even involuntary) a kind of a shield, and, should you bypass that, you may get stuck which is really embarrassing (imagine going to hospital wrapped in a bed sheet). So, FOREPLAY dude. I guess you know better, i mean, you've had some petting, kissing touching before planning on having sex, right? And a protip: vaginas are slightly sloped, so don't expect getting in like a key in a door lock.


Don't panic, i may have told lots of scary stuff, but they happen rarely if you are careful. Don't worry too much about how, after all. Sex is natural, like blinking or walking. When the time will come, your body will know what to do. And it'll do just fine!|||You should know whether or not she has AIDS. That's probably a good start, I'd worry about the condom after that's settled.|||Don't do it.